tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9605787.post110785979195220568..comments2023-12-24T01:23:48.970+05:30Comments on Youth Curry - Insight on Indian Youth: Woh ladki hai kahaan Part 1Rashmi Bansalhttp://www.blogger.com/profile/17447667745099994241noreply@blogger.comBlogger9125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9605787.post-21634794708045443332007-09-12T21:09:00.000+05:302007-09-12T21:09:00.000+05:30@ Sarika,it's sad that even today, such disparitie...@ Sarika,<BR/><BR/>it's sad that even today, such disparities happen to exist in marriages. But as far as your case is concerned, I feel to some extent you were at fault too. The very reason why we marry the one we love is because we wanna live our lives with "our kinda" partners. And I'm very sorry to say, your husband doesn't seem to belong to that kind. And despite belonging to that zilch group of people who are fortunate enough to learn what they have in store for them in future, you went ahead and married this guy. I'm sorry, I ain't trying to justify your husband's actions...I just wrote what I felt about your issue!Shayonhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/09794928062426104784noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9605787.post-16552333386459613842007-09-11T15:22:00.000+05:302007-09-11T15:22:00.000+05:30Dear Rashmi,This is my story. I have married my ba...Dear Rashmi,<BR/><BR/>This is my story. I have married my batch mate from MBA college. I was a better performer than him in the college. I ranked in top 15, highly ambitious. And the best part is he knew all this and apparently supported it. But as you after marriage my job and my career has become least important to him. He got posted to UK just before marriage and the bargain laid out in front of me was leave your job and be with me. Since I took a stand and didn’t go with him. I am continuously pressurized for leaving my job, shifting cities. My in laws blame me for his unhappiness without even thinking about me. They all say I surely can do a job but as long as it doesn’t come in their son’s happiness.<BR/><BR/>I ask why we allow our girls to study and so dream. All higher education for girls should be banned in India if we can’t appreciate the girls’ right to dream and aspire. Why for a girl it is always made a choice between family and career?<BR/><BR/>Regards,<BR/><BR/>SarikaAnonymoushttps://www.blogger.com/profile/11404128327271165691noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9605787.post-1119939579122521202005-06-28T11:49:00.000+05:302005-06-28T11:49:00.000+05:30You are definitely bang on target. But there are j...You are definitely bang on target. But there are just a list of problems and no solutions for the working women of india. I have a sister who falls into the same category. She is 23, born to a middle-class family of teachers, into her first job in a reputed s/w firm and puts her career first. But how long, I am not too sure. She is yet to find a match on her own and given her social skills i dont think she will ever find one. And given that my parents are conservative and we belong to a backward caste, it will be tough for them to find a "suitable" match. I am a guy touching 30 and they are finding it tough to find me a match. So the things are not looking great on the marriage front. And I am sure, this is the case with most of the "conservative" middle class aspiring population of India - that marriage is their first and biggest compromise.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9605787.post-1112216784513867122005-03-31T02:36:00.000+05:302005-03-31T02:36:00.000+05:30On the part regarding additional restriction on gi...On the part regarding additional restriction on girls, I think part of reasoning here is their wellbeing as well. Considering the crime rate, if parents wants their daughters to come back home early or avoid late night parties, they just want their safety. You can blame male-dominated society for it, but it is as it is.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9605787.post-1109113570540026582005-02-23T04:36:00.000+05:302005-02-23T04:36:00.000+05:30Ok. Tell us something new.Ok. Tell us something new.Libran Loverhttps://www.blogger.com/profile/08385670064264356313noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9605787.post-1109057820726625352005-02-22T13:07:00.000+05:302005-02-22T13:07:00.000+05:30Hi Rashmi,
I do agree with your views, but I do f...Hi Rashmi,<br /><br />I do agree with your views, but I do feel that not all Males are like that. I am, for example, prepared not to work and stay at home if my wife(I dont have one now) has a better job.<br /><br />And I would always be happy in what she is happy in, whether she wants to work or not<br /><br />But what I cannot compromise is the education level, I do want an intelligent brain to share my life and there should not be anything wrong with that. (By the way you can see that link)Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9605787.post-1107933262590381212005-02-09T12:44:00.000+05:302005-02-09T12:44:00.000+05:30Nothing can be closer to the truth. Came blog hopp...Nothing can be closer to the truth. Came blog hopping and ended up reading all of this in one go...<br />Awesome....:)<br />SoniaSoniahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16183452120290085809noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9605787.post-1107911091954782722005-02-09T06:34:00.001+05:302005-02-09T06:34:00.001+05:30well that earlier anonymous comment was mine.....v...well that earlier anonymous comment was mine.....vaibhav.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-9605787.post-1107911040727240532005-02-09T06:34:00.000+05:302005-02-09T06:34:00.000+05:30hey rashmi, well thats a good thought. totally ec...hey rashmi, well thats a good thought. totally echoes my views, but i dont think leaving career jus to make babies is .....er....right!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com